The Great "And Yet!"
- Carol Kilby

- May 1
- 2 min read
Updated: May 4
It’s a powerful short phrase. I reach for it almost daily to escape a doomy, dualistic, miopic worldview, whether my own or that of a new or beloved acquaintance.
“And yet!” I say, “in the chaos of the collapse – be it governance, religion or economy – in the collapse of the very structures that led to Earth’s crisis, is promise.
Remember,” I say, “the evolutionary process has shown five times before that extinctions are thresholds of emerging ways and forms of being. And yet!” It’s the key to a new cosmology of entanglement, symbiosis, and interbeing proffered by science and preserved in indigenous wisdom.
And yet! It’s the chorus in the evolutionary psalm, Dance of Peril and Promise (page 228 in
Becoming the Change, our new book available on May 15th. Inspiration for this re-worded and reclaimed psalm came from the Earth Charter, “the future at once holds great peril and great promise.” Each stanza is a restatement of a chapter in our newest origin story from cosmological science; each stanza begins and ends with, “And Yet!” Here’s a taste.
In the Big Bang, billions of particles were created and annihilated at once. And yet! Out of the one-in-a-billion particle survivors emerged Universe, galaxies, stars, and us.
Great Supernovas died explosive deaths. And yet! Out of star-stuff, new stars, planets, and a solar system were born.
A colliding planetoid catapulted Earth’s molten matter into Space. And yet! That lost portion is our moon, mother of seasons and mistress of tides.
Chaos and creativity are one! It’s a cosmic pattern. Peril and promise are one! It’s an ecological pattern. After five extinctions, a new Earth of greater complexity, consciousness, and community has emerged. Co-author of the new book, Steve Martin writes: “Despite all the things that could go wrong, the Universe promises, it is its nature to be creative, generous, and abundant, flowing outward from itself every moment as a new offering to the Whole.”
And yet! Two very small words that, when used as a daily practice bolsters my faith and midwifes a profound cosmology: I am the entangled and compassionate reality that is now, and always will be becoming. With this worldview, I can face disappointing reports of inhumanity or environmental disaster with a not-uncomplicated trust in one thing. I can say, ”And yet!" I am, and we are Becoming the Change we were born in this time to be.
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I love "and yet!" as a positive, life-giving response to challenging news. It reminds me of the "yes, and" that is so essential in any form of improvisation. Thank you for this post, Carol!
Carol, thanks for this focused and deeply true reflection! I have read it 3-4 times now, and each time feel its truth in everyday reality of these times, and especially in the groups I have worked with dor many years...your words focus it in deep and clear language...